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I've lost my best friend and I don't know why

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Question - (6 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2010)
A age 30-35, * writes:

ive lost my so called bestfriend.

we have known each other for about 4 years and out of the no where she stopped talking to me. I just dont no why and im not/ dont want to ask her. however i feel bad and i want her back as my bestfriend.

i see her at school and she doesnt even say hi or or look at me.the last time i talked to her was during her boyfriends birthday ( a month ago)she was planing to spend time with him and we were going to go out and have fun however i got grounded and we end up doing nothing and she came over with him and her sister. Her sister came in and they stayed outside, my mom would ask who was outside and we would tell her, my mom would tell her sister to tell her to come in with her b.f. and but she didnt want to her sister then made them come in, and ever since then she hasnt talked to me.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (6 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntHmm it sounds like she might have went in a bad mood for you not going out with her or maybe its a jelousy thing maybe her sister wanted to go and check on you and she got jelous to the fact that they should be out enjoying themselves, am afraid the only way you can solve this though is to ask her, because if you dont ask her what is wrong then it will never be sorted, she is probably just waiting for you to come to her so you can both sort it out and she is probably thinking now that you never cared because you arent even trying to sort things out, next time you see her you need to ask her what is wrong.

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A female reader, LovZLikZwoZ United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

Well, youve been friends with this girl for 4 years so its not like you two are strangers.. Just ask her whats wrong,, ive lost plenty of friends because i was too shy to try and figure things out, but you have to talk to her.. trust me if you dont talk to her now and let too much time pass it might be a little too late later on

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A female reader, charvics United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2010):

Ok hunny... right what u need 2 do u need 2 ask her 2 speak 2 her in private and say that something is on my chest and just ask her if u have done somehting worng, if not she may just have her own problems but its best 2 ask her hun.

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