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I've known her for years and I love her!

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Question - (16 July 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2016)
A male United States age 26-29, *pl042296 writes:

Help, I'm a 20 year old guy and just recently started talking to my

best friend from since I was 12, I had a crush on her when we

were younger and than we lost contact cuz of the wrong people we

were in relationships with... We just started talking a few days

ago when she moved back into town and I feel like we're both

flirting with each other and trying to set each other up to make the

first move but we never do and I know if we were really amazing

friends it wouldn't matter but I'm in love with her and I know it's not

just me really caring about her cuz I've felt it before but this time

I know it's real,

I could figure it out on my own but I need some

brain storming so will someone please help?!

PS: we always act like we're in a relationship together but a healthy relationship and since we have been friends everyone always thought

we were together, we also have never been in a single argument or disagreement...

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (18 July 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntJust go for it, call her and ask her would she like to go on a date with you. Good luck.

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A male reader, no nonsense Aidan United Kingdom +, writes (17 July 2016):

Do you know that she is single? Assuming yes, I would take charge of the situation: some-one has to. This obviously means a lot to you. I would tell her how much you value her friendship, tell her how much you enjoy her company and your conversations and tell her that you were wondering how she would feel if you were to ask her on a date. She may say yes, she may say no, or she may ask you to confirm that you’re saying that you have feelings for her (if she does that, answer truthfully that you do). Then if it goes well, take things slowly. There’s no secret to this, and no way to get her to see it without having to do the awkward bit of telling her how you feel. But knowing is better than wondering, and you might just get the result you wanted.

I wish you all the very best.

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