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writes:hi agony aunts. i wonder if you could help me.I met a guy friend (kinda) the other day who i havent seen for about 3-4years. His sister is the same age as me (18) and she was the 1st friend i made when my family and i moved when i was only 7. our friendship drifted over the years, we still speak but ive always really fancied her brother who is a year older. No one knows this. So for 11yrs ive kept my feelings to myself. Then 1 day he turns up at the pub after coming home from the army and we hit it off really well. we went outside and were chatting for about 2-3hrs in the cold. He gave me his coat to keep warm and we talked some more. we ended up kissing and it was like a dream come true, sas the night went on we kept bumping into eachother and kissing. After the night was over i stayed with a friend but went to this guys house (he stays with his mum)to see his mum and see how she was getting on as i usually do this.He was there and he winked at me, i went inside for a quick drink and was "introduced" to everyone there. there was this girl i know and she got inroduced to me as this guys girlfriend, well i couldnt get out quick enough.Ive liked him since i was 7 and my feelings have never gone away! what do i do? do i take a chance and see if he has any feelings for me and maybe destroy what we have? or just stay quiet? Surely having feelings for someone this long means something!
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reader, iwillhelpyouthroughit +, writes (30 June 2007):
 deinatly!
....see where you stand
i mean if you dont do anything and he is just using you you will be very upset later on
so ask him now what his intentions are towards you
i mean you avnt got anything to lose
i no you've liked im for years but maybe
wen you find out his feelings you could get closer or drift apart..this myt be a good thing
go for it is all i can say!
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (29 June 2007):
 He kissed you when he has a girlfriend??
You need to know where you stand. If he is planning on staying with the girlfriend then you need to try and forget about him and move on.
Corner this lad when you see him on his own and ask him what his game is kissing you when he is taken.
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