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writes:For 2 years when I was in primary school I lived in a very small country town (now to those of you who are from oone, no offence intended, I am ONLY speaking generally. I know there are some or perhaps even many of you who are very different to this, but the people I know from this town are like this, OK) for 2 years. Things were OK but we moved to a bigger town for my dad's work. I stil have kept in contact with a few people from there. One of them in paritular calls me her best friend. We are now 16 and she gets on my bloody nerves! The people from that town are particuly here are so narrow minded, manipulative b*tchy and arrogant. It annoys the hell out of me. And the guys, well they are all sleazes and jerks with no values, morals or respect for others.So the problem is, I can't get along with this friend anymore. Her 'different opinions' as she puts it, totally goes against my values, beliefs and way of life. I never thought the day would come when I could say I despise the poeple like someone who was once my best friend. But thats honestly how I feel. It's people like her who grow up and have kids and teach their kids to hurt others. They have no respect for other people, they sleep wiith anyone and everyone they can, and when they get married they basically continue to do so despite their vows. They swear all the time, they seem to have no feelings of pain, regret or guilt. I don't know what to do! It would be hard for me to cut all contact with this friend, but I really can't stand her. At least once every time we chat we end up having disagreements, which always make me really upset because I see how people like her live and behave, they manipulate people, and that hurts me cuz to many people I know do that to me, and to think I'm frineds with one annoys me.I just dont know what to do? Should I stop being firneds with her?
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reader, Jazzy121  +, writes (9 April 2008):
Hey
Why not say you have moved on and need to meet new people
This might sound strange But graduado oilly cut out contact stop ansewering her calls
And if you have to face her
dont be rude but defo dont be friendly
Rememeber think of her as aqquitance!!
spelt that wrong :S
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