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writes:For those of you that do not know what I said before here is the link Copy and paste into the address bar ok:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/his-gf-will-be-away-for-1-year.htmlPRESENT UPDATE:Anyhow I am back to update you all on what has happened lately....Well I contacted my friend Mr. De La Torre on The 27th it had been exactly a week since we last spoke, cause we got into a small argument. He wasn't mad at me and I was not mad at him...well not so much, but anyhow I asked him how has his week gone so far..He said that his wifey had gone to england for a whole year. He said that he really likes her so he JUST MIGHT WAIT. I told him. Wait???? DOn't question your feelings for her...If you care for her wait, cause even though I love him I always do the right thing...there happiness comes before mine...N-E how so i said Wait for her and see how it works out...in the long run she just might be the one and she might be the future Mrs. De la Torre and he said the Future Dr. De la torre....so we laughed and joked about how many children they were going to have together and her said no more than 4...I told him that there is nothing better than a big family and said I knew exactly how he felt.....well we talk everyday...I contact him like always..anyhow he shows no interest in me and he loves her...I told him wait for her she's worth it, and that's why I feel like I have no chance here that I will always be the friend...I told him to invite me to the wedding....but those things that he said to me and how he started of the conversation with I MIGHT just wait for her....why does he always throw those little signs at me? He knows he's messing with my head and he likes it...it sux how guys always know how to get in our heads and mess us up.......He tells me to move to California, but he only sees me as a friend or does he? Who knows I wouldn't dare ask him....besides I doubt he would ever go out with a fat girl....it's not like I'm going to be fat forever I am going to get on track and lose weight, but that is beside the pointPAST SUBJECT:I feel I have developed feelings for my friend....I used to have a crush on hi in 6th grade we lost touch over the years I got back in touch with him last years and we talk just about everyday. He has a girlfriend yet he tells me that I am pretty if we weren't friends he would flirt...He plays a lot of head games with me, he tells me he is going to have a serious talk and break up with her. that after he talks to her he will call me tomorrow or the day after...he never calls and things are more perfect with them then ever. He has not told me he likes me or anything, but it's the things he does or says that confuse me.......While she is away in europe for the year should I go back to California and fight for his affection or should I just leave them alone and forget about my happiness like I always do...I always put other peoples needs before mine and that is why I am so miserable..I really feel he could save my life
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (1 October 2007):
He is cat playing with you the mouse. Unless you get away you will be hurt.
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