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I've been with my boyfriend for nine months, is this normal?

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Question - (16 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ndreass1506 writes:

i s it normal to be 21 and to not want to be touched down there boy your boyfirend of 9 months?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010):

what's normal? we are all individual people and we all must do what we are comfortable with. There will come a time when it feels right...and you will know you are ready. until then, dont do what you dont want to do. that way you will have no regrets. :) mal

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A female reader, dramatix United States +, writes (16 July 2010):

Honey, it dosen't matter what is "normal" for other people with matters like this. Only you can decide what you feel is right about sex. Not wanting him to touch you could be because you're scared. Is it your first time? Talk to him about your worries and feelings. If you don't feel that you CAN have a mature conversation of that nature with him, is he really someone you should be with? Don't do it unless you are SURE and it feels right. Good luck!

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