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writes:Hi.I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs. In November, I started sleeping with a guy from my class, he has a girlfriend of 6 years. We both know that it has to stop sometine. We get on really well and recently he said that when it does stop he wants to stay in touch. Last night he said he wants to stop things because I expect too much. I feel awful. What should I do? Should I just come clean to my boyfriend and except the consequences?Thanks
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (5 April 2007):
you should of come clean at the begining but obviously you chose to be selfish and deny your bf a chance to find someone who understands what a loyal faithfull relationship actually is and who deserves his love instead of abusing it.
in short, yes tell him what a lying cheat you are and except it
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reader, nologo  +, writes (5 April 2007):
 It depends whether you feel you are ready for that.
You cannot predict his reaction; it can be whatever.
He can dump you, he can forgive you, he can test you - different guys react differently to such situations.
What you should learn for yourself is that cheating may be simple, but the consequences may be complicated.
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