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writes:Can anyone offer any advice on what to do when you find the girl that is the " ONE " you have been searching for all you life, but the problem is you work in the same office as them. i am 31 and she is 21, and the age gap is not a problem here.I have been working with her for 8 months now and five of those months we have been flirting bigtime, by way of sharing long glances from across the office, touches, whispering things to each other ect, we have been known to hold eye contact for ten seconds before.The flirting has sparked up comments with other Co workers saying things about us which has taken its toll on me abit, but she says they are just jealous. the last two weeks the flirting has just come to a complete halt which is mainly on my part. The other night as she was going home, she was passing my desk and she just stared at me for a couple of seconds before she went out the door, but i was the one who broke the gaze and looked away. I have also caught her looking at me during the day too, but still can't hold eye contact with her for long.Inside i really fancy this girl alot, but outwardly im giving her signs i don't care anymore, but i want her more than i have ever wanted any girl in my life. there is no doubt in my mind that if i did not work with her she would be my girl by now.I feel this girl is my soulmate, and its torture seeing her day in day out, not being able to tell her how i feel, all these feelings building up inside. Im positive she feels the same way as me. But surely she understands that we both work in the same office where a certain amount professionalism must be adopted. but something is going to erupt soon because neither of us can go on like this.I need to get our flirting back on track, and soon before its to late.
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (8 December 2006):
 I think you two have waited long enough and it appears that you feel the same about eachother. I would ask her out sometime, you have liked her for 5 months. As long as you two can keep it professional in the office then it should go fine. Have fun and good luck.
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