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male
age
36-40,
*ttudyo
writes:Hello Dear Cupid community, I need some urgent tips; last minute advice if you please. Tomorrow I'm taking out this girl to a party, this is our fifth date. To give you some context, I'm 27 years old, she's 23. I never had a girlfriend before. I think that says a lot.Anyway, I'm dying to kiss her tomorrow but I'm so bad at these things!!!! I NEED to know how to create a context where I can kiss her and that she knows I want to kiss her. I'm a guy who is clumsy with this body, his hands and clumsy with words as well. What things can I do and what things to say to create context so that she knows that I want to kiss her and be comfortable??? I just don't want to go in for a kiss randomly and awkwardly. I need to know what sort of thing do you say or talk about in this situations so that it leads to the outcome I want. (I'm also 100% sure she's waiting for me to kiss her, but as I said before I am REALLY REALLY bad at these things and with words/feelings, no wonder I'm still single).PLEASE HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP!!!
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reader, EventHorizon  +, writes (31 May 2013):
 I guess if you are both sitting together, take her hand and see how she responds to your touch. If she pulls away, maybe don't kiss her. If she smiles at you and has good open body language, just actually say to her do you mind if I kiss you? And take it from there. Calm down, kissing comes naturally if its your first kiss just dont shove your tongue down her throat straight away and follow her lead. I am sure she likes you seen as its your fifth date. Go for it!. Best of luck with it.
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