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anonymous
writes:i am in this serious situation, my boyfriend / ex boyfriend I don't know what to call it.we work the same place.i just found out that a lady who have to conduct business where we work is with my b/f. she brings lunch for him and visit him, he carries her home and stuff like that. I asks him about it he give me no answer, I asks him about our relationship he give me no answer. I decide to ask the lady if they hook up she said yes for quite a while, he gets mad at me for asking the lady that. now I see the two of them more. He doesn't even communicate to me that we are finished.its breaking me in pieces, I still love him, now we don't talk to each other cause I don't know where I stand with him. how do I deal with a relationship like this, especially we work at the same place. and on top of that the lady comes by practically evryday to bring lunch. how can I cope with all this? how to deal with my boyfriend plus his other woman when it comes to work? its really hard. its really embarrassing and humiliating for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2013): that's what i am trying do right now, i don't communicate with him at all. But he owes me a great deal of money over 10 grand. what do i do about that, cause i ask him about it he told me he have no money to try and pay me back, i don't have any money to go courts with the matter either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2013): Find another job or get over him. You had no right to confront the woman your ex- is seeing, and you only hurt yourself more in the process. You are a mature woman and you know better.
If he is seeing someone else, he is definitely your ex-boyfriend. You are in denial if you feel otherwise.
It is important that you get your feelings under control, or the boss may make the decision whether you leave or stay.
Move on. It is now over and you should stay professional when you are at work. Don't place your ex- in the position to take it to HR. These things can get pretty touchy.
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