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writes: I have been in an unstable relationship for the last 9 years (on and off ). We have 2 children. There is no trust in this relationship and feel that I'm caged in, my partner doesn't like me going out with my work collegues and will make all sorts of excuses to get me to stay in. She is eager to get married in 2007 but I feel if there is no trust then there is no point. I don't feel part of this relationship anymore and I'm not entirely sure if I love her anymore. I dont want to simply leave as she hasn't done anything wrong and I can't be without my kids. I have started having feelings for a woman in the office opposite mine, and don't know what to do. I feel this relationship is over but cant bring myself to end it. I'm not very confident with confrontations and when she starts an arguement I simply back down. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, TP, writes (17 February 2005): Hi, I think you have either never loved her to start with or you have been unfaithful or given her reason to think that you have been unfaithful. Or she could have Self-Esteem problems, or feel trapped with the children, not going out and being herself. Do you ever make her feel special? Treat her to something nice? I think you should either talk about this problem in depth to find out from her why she doesnot trust you, and work on it. If you feel this is not worth doing, then move on. Good Luck!
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