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writes:Hi, im 15 and have just come out of a seriouse relationship it has been two months now and i am still not over him. i like him more than ever Is he the one? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 I know you realize you have to move on. It's hard. I'm 36 years old. I have 4 wonderful children. I will say there are a couple of people even from 10 years ago, I'm still not over. I think part of that is, when you have good memories with someone. Exciting experiences, they become a part of your life. You're memories and what you have experienced with him develops who you become. Every relationship we have has a part in how we view future relationships.
Remember this, don't compare people. Don't try to find someone like your ex to be with. Be with someone for who they are, not because they remind you of past relationships. The good memories in the future may be different than the past, but their memories to be treasured and help you to grow into the person you are becoming.
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reader, pwincess +, writes (15 September 2007):
pwincess is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks, that helped ... i know i shuld move on but it is kinda hard but it will take time! Thanks again xxx
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reader, becca78 +, writes (14 September 2007):
Sorry if i sound patronising, but you are still young and it's very unlikely that he is the one. When I was about 15 (and 18 and 23 and 27) I went through the same feelings. You will know when you meet the one - he is out there, to move on all you need it time to get it in perspective.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (14 September 2007):
 i have just came out of a relationship and like you i beleived he was the one. i am 20 and so was he, but he cheated on me. don't be in such a hurry to find that special someone because boys under the age of 25 are immature and haven't finished "experimenting". enjoy you're childhood because when you're older, you'll wish you had it back. love will find you when the time is right, remember - everything happens for a reason, i don't think rekindling the relationship is likely to work, it takes time and alot of tears and chocolate but you are better off without him. the feelings you are experince are anxiety, you think you're missing out on something but i promise you, he is the one missing out and if it is meant to be, you have many years to find out. delete his number from your phone and move on. best wishes.
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 September 2007):
Who knows if he's the one, or how to test if he is or not. There's a song I have enjoyed since I was your age. It's called "Don't know what you have until it's gone." I believe that to be true. The reason being, we as a society most of the time take for grated what we have. We don't take much time, having busy lives, to really appreciate our lives, what we have, and the people we are blessed to be associated with. Can you know for sure if he is really "the one". Only time will tell, but if you restart this relationship remember to take time to appreciate it.
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