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It seems like I'm going to lose her... what do I do?

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Question - (31 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2010)
A male China age 30-35, *enxd writes:

Hey,Guys,

I have some problems with one of my friends,

And i need you help.

This is the thing,one of my friend's a girl, who has been my friend since high school, is going to celebrate her birthday, and asked me if i can give her a present for her birthday.

But i didn't have enough money to buy what she wanted, later that day, i discussed this thing in a BBS, and i posted her photo on the website, as people asked. I didn't realize what great mistake it is until the next day.

The next day, someone who had some conflicts with me said something to the girl about the BBS thing, and she seemed really angry and sad, she even cried!

I assume it must that guy said something really bad to her, so i deleted the photos immediately and explained to her, says i didn't say anything mean about her on the internet or did anything else, just discuss with people and find out what others would do if they needed to give somebody a present and they don't have money.

She just said"ok"

but this morning, when i said hi to her, she didn't even answer, she pretended she didn't even see me.

It seems like i am going to lose her, what should i do?

I have already tried to explain,and she didn't belive it.

BTW,i am sorry for my poor English,i am just Chinese senior high student.

Thank you.

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (1 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntAs is often said: "the road to hell is paved with good intentions" It sounds as though you *meant* well, but in reality, it turned out to be a very bad judgement call on your part.

I think all you can do is earnestly apologize for the error in judgement, you presumably acted without malice. You can offer a sincere apology adding that you had good intentions but it went very wrong. This can happen.

It is entirely up to her to accept your apology or not. Whatever her choice, I'm afraid you must accept that as the consequences. Good luck!

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