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*eilta
writes:So im really confused i have a friend lets call liza and a guy i have a had a crush on since 3 years now lets call him bob. So liza added bob on facebook and shes a very good friend of mine. Me and bob use to always text until he gave liza his number. Today i found out she texts bob a lot and he invited her with us. Bobs brother told me that he likes liza now and hurts me cause i know she will like him too because hes a sweet heart. But im confused because he calls me his "best friend" and said i love you for the first time. What should i do?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (22 March 2011):
 Fine, then your option is to watch Bob hook up with Liza.Sometimes we need to quit making excuses for ourselves. Basically you have 3 options:1) Tell him how you feel and hope for the best2) Keep crushing on him as he dates other girls3) Move onI can tell you from experience that the easiest option is to keep crushing, but it's also the most painful in the long run and you miss out on lots of great opportunities.
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reader, keilta +, writes (22 March 2011):
keilta is verified as being by the original poster of the question But im a very shy person and i feel if i tell him things will be awkard after.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 March 2011):
Tell Bob you have feelings for him and would like to date him. If you just sit back you'll end up watching him fall for someone else without ever putting up a fight. At least put it out there so there's no doubt about where you stand.
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