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writes:I've been masturbating for as long as I can remember (though, of course, I just recently found out what the word for it it). I can recal being, literally, a kindergartener and getting it on with myself. I was always very conscious of the fact that other kids my age weren't doing this. How weird is this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd no, I have never been abused sexually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): I too rememeber masturbating since I was five years of age. And yes it was due to sexual molestation because my parents allowed me to watch sexy movies. My mother wanted to please my father so much she didn't care. He has always been a movie addict and didn't care about the content of the movie, if he wanted to see it we (sister and I) had to see it too.
I discovered masturbation and did it. My mother saw me once and the idiot told my father (don't undesrtand why). I took that as a betrayal from her. Thanks to that I was bothered by him and grew up ashamed of myself until adulthood. My mother used to tell me how my father everytime used to think I was masturbating. It was gross. If I spent too much time in the bathrrom he thought I was doing it, if I was sleeping with an extra pillow or my pillow was anywere near my legs he would be like all serious and demanding of me to go to sleep or something.
They totally ruined my childhood and then accused me of beign a little pervert.
By the way i lost my virginity at 31. I'm still single and I'm about to turn 34. Now I'm a christian and know mastrubating ain't good and I try not to do it. It works if you keep praying and not watching sexy movies or videos and keeping a pure mind.
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reader, sommerslover +, writes (21 December 2008):
 Not as weird as you think. Some people are more sexually aware of their bodies sooner than others. You just happen to be one of those that discovered what makes you feel good at an early age. You say you've been masturbating since kindergarten. No doubt that was a tough secret to keep all this time. There is nothing wrong with you, you have only been enjoying masturbation longer than others is all. Some in here might suggest you might have been acting out from possible sexual abuse at a young age, but that wasn't really your question. You're fine.
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