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Is this sex?

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Question - (11 December 2016) 6 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2016)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So me and my boyfriend were both in our underwear just simply rubbing and grinding. No intercourse. BUT, he slid my panty aside and stuck it in but he still had his boxers on... he maybe stuck a inch in but it was inside but not skin on skin. Im confused if this is sex or not.. please help!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (16 December 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntYes you did have sex, you could also be pregnant right now. I think you need to educate yourself more on safe sex and don't get yourself in to this situation again. You need to be prepared. Go to your doctor and get condoms and practice safely.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2016):

The whole virginity thing is a made up concept.

I think most people would say that if having an underwear covered penis inside you isn't sex it is awfulllllly close!

You know that precum can make you pregnant, right?

Be careful!

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A female reader, k4ren United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2016):

Yes, it is of course sex, the same as if he was wearing a condom.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2016):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntYou just had intercourse. Just because he had boxers on doesn't mean it wasn't sex - the same way that a condom on doesn't mean it's not intercourse.

Buy some condoms and get on birth control immediately.

Please read up on safe sex and educate yourself before being in this position again.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (12 December 2016):

Honeypie agony auntUm yes, if HE stuck his PENIS inside your vagina - even if it was "only" an inch, you had sex. Doesn't make a difference if he was wearing boxer, overall or a Santa suit - his DICK was out of his clothing and INSIDE you.

If his penis was covered by the fabric from his boxers but INSIDE your vagina, you had sex. And he can STILL ejaculate and leave sperm inside you.

YOU two need to buy some condoms and start using them ASAP - no more sticking "it" in without a condom on. He can STILL ejaculate an INCH inside you and knock you up.

Be smart, not pregnant.

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A female reader, fishdish United States +, writes (12 December 2016):

fishdish agony auntIt's sure starting to be. A traditional definition of sex is penetration. You two shouldn't take chances like that and start buying condoms.

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