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writes:My partner wants to go away with his ex without me, even though they have been friends 15 years i struggle with this as his friend waited till we were in a solid committed monogamous relationship, then he behaved badly and chose to not get to know me and then takes my partner away overseas for a weeekend. My partner doesnt understand why i struggle with this. It is not appropriate, it is simple, he sometimes says nah he wont come to my place as he wants a night in and then pops off to a gay dance club with another friend all night. am i being taken here by some naieve thing who just wants it all his way, he knows i am not happy 6 weeks before he travelled which was moments after he was invited to go, he haas left the country an hour ago now on this trip
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reader, TooMuchToThinkAbout  +, writes (18 January 2013):
It doesn't seem that he's even considered your feelings on this issue. Whether he thinks you have a reason to be upset he should still listen to how you feel. You should leave the relationship.
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reader, cmarieky +, writes (18 January 2013):
I couldn't have said it better mrswaldhauser. O.P, I second that. All in favor of mrswaldhauser....
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reader, mrswaldhauser  +, writes (17 January 2013):
 Have his stuff ready and packed when he gets back.
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