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*agicmorpheus
writes:I'm a heterosexual male and is not sexualy attracted to men. However I do get turned on when I see a male erection. I fantasise on occasions about performing felatio and mutual masturbation with guys. I have also participated in mutual masturbation with male freinds. Last week I allowed a guy to suck me off,despite not being sexualy attracted to him, only his hardon. Is this normal and should avoid any contact sexualy with men if I'm not gay or bi?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 November 2016):
 Don't worry about putting a label on yourself. If you want to be curious about somethings then that is okay. Don't judge yourself
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (4 November 2016):
 You are bi-curious, OP. You're not straight.
The thing is, that's okay. You can't be straight and have/enjoy sex with guys, though.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (4 November 2016):
 Sorry but your in denial about being bi sexual. It is what it is, no shame in that. Embrace who you are, what you enjoy and be happy. Try not over think what comes natural too you otherwise you'll drive yourself bonkers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2016): Nobody will admit it, but most guys have thoughts about doing something sexual with other guys at some point in their lives.We all have the same equipment (although foreskin is an optional accessory) so we know what would get another guy off in a way women simply can't understand, thus it's natural to fantasize about getting other guys off the way we would like to get ourselves off or vice versa or both.I sincerely believe every guy should have a jerk-off buddy (or three) because it would provide an atmosphere where guys could freely discuss their sexuality as well as give them a chance openly compare each others' dicks (most every guy does surreptitiously check each other out if given the chance, often to assure themselves that theirs is "normal").I see mutual JO as male bonding more than a sexual act, but as a sexual act it's the safest thing you can do with another person. You're very fortunate to have friends willing to have fun with you (I would love to have friends like yours) so embrace the opportunity and enjoy yourself.
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reader, Magicmorpheus +, writes (4 November 2016):
Magicmorpheus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionApparently a doctor in New York has come up with a name for it.
Heteroflexible: You are open to fooling around with someone of the same sex, even though you generally consider yourself straight. Also known as bi-curious, questioning, experimenting, or mostly straight.
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reader, Soup1129  +, writes (4 November 2016):
I believe being gay or bi means you're attracted to the same (and opposite if bi) both on an emotional and anatomical level. I'm a straight woman, but do I think some women are beautiful? Yes, some women can turn me on and I have fantasies of being with women which I have made come true but they're still there lol. But I could never have a girlfriend or be married to a female. They're just sexual fantasies.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (4 November 2016):
 The "hard-on" is part of the guy; in fact it's really the only thing anatomically that makes him a man. There are people of both genders with androgynous builds and features (flat chests, slim hips, etc) and everyone has nipples and an anus. So if it is the literal erection you're attracted to, well, that can ONLY be found on a male, either trans or biological.
If you're able to enjoy sexual activity with both men and women - and it seems that you are - you're bisexual. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
As long as you use appropriate protection during these encounters (and keep them discreet, if you don't want to be publicly known or acknowledged as bisexual) I see no harm in what you are doing. Be upfront with your partners that you are only looking for discreet, casual encounters so no one's feelings get hurt.
Hope this helps clarify things for you. Best wishes!
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