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*abrinanc
writes:does anyone out there have any trouble reaching orgasm's ??? I don't understand why I have this problem..My boyfriend will go down on me and it feels good but i rarely reach orgasm this way or any way..I think my urges and sensitivity in that area is not what it should be..Just a curious poster...
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reader, sabrinanc +, writes (17 November 2010):
sabrinanc is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the advice ya'll...i am gonna get me a g-spot vibrator and see how that goes...hehehe
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Keep working on the solo acts..if not like I said look into decent vibrators. Before I used them I never had an orgasm, then after a while they're all I used. Who needs a man, then? After a while, I stopped using them then tried the good old manual way then voila I could do it by myself.
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reader, sabrinanc +, writes (16 November 2010):
sabrinanc is verified as being by the original poster of the questionby the way, i am new to this group and i am not sure how to reply but i will do my best...thanks guys and gals for everything.. :-)i wanna orgasm so bad and it makes it worse because i can't. i think i am getting closer though..
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reader, sabrinanc +, writes (16 November 2010):
sabrinanc is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't even think I have orgasmed. I get to the point where i feel like i am going to and then nothing happens..i think i orgasmed once when i was about 17..I haven't felt that feeling since..it is a different feeling now..i think my sexual urge is way to low..i know that you are suppose to feel strong urges in your lower region..can someone tell me what it feels like right before you cum?? I heard someone say it almost feels like u are gonna pee..well i get that feeling but, isn't something big suppose to happen right after that feeling..because if there is i know i haven't orgasmed because i would want it all the time..i bet u guys think i am crazy but i am serious..needing answers...thanks for all your responses.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (16 November 2010):
 That's a real shame! One thing I thought of is doing your best to relax and not try so hard. The more you focus on something like this, the harder it can become to make happen.
When your BF is going down on you, focus on your breathing. Moan some. I've found that I can make the sensation even more powerful if I do this. I'm not saying fake it, but just try letting it out.
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reader, sabrinanc +, writes (16 November 2010):
sabrinanc is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto dirtball : I don't even think I have orgasmed. I get to the point where i feel like i am going to and then nothing happens..i think i orgasmed once when i was about 17..I haven't felt that feeling since..it is a different feeling now..i think my sexual urge is way to low..i know that you are suppose to feel strong urges in your lower region..can someone tell me what it feels like right before you cum?? I heard someone say it almost feels like u are gonna pee..well i get that feeling but, isn't something big suppose to happen right after that feeling..because if there is i know i haven't orgasmed because i would want it all the time..i bet u guys think i am crazy but i am serious..needing answers...thanks for all your responses.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): I have this problem sometimes too but I know it's because I feel awkward of the time my bf is spending down there. He is very generous and loves doing it but I find that I climax everytime I take control. By that I mean that I tell him where to touch, lick, etc. This way I know how to get off faster. If you don't know what you like than you need to spend more time on yourself. Once you can make yourself do it, it will be easier for your bf to find the magic spot. If all else fails get the mirror out to help. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): I have the same problem too and it is quite common in women not to get orgasms during sex. I never had an orgasm during sex but i can get one when i use batteries or masturbating myself. It really does bother me that i dont get one. I had an ex recently and he gave out to me cuz i never climaxed but even though i told him i never did with any guy, he told me that it really bothers guys but he was a insensitive guy anyway. I dont think there is something wrong with me psychologically..to be honest, i do not know what it is myself. Just telling you that you are not alone xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Yes I have the exact same problem, not that its not good, its great I just cant get over the last hurdle - think its psycholigical...according to google we dont trust men..what woman does!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 November 2010):
mmmmmmm Johnny Depp. That's the one guy in the world I'd go gay for...
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 November 2010):
It took me 8 years to achieve an orgasm thru penetration with my husband. Before that I was doing solo acts...clitoral stimulation, sometimes used a vibrator. I recommend the silver bullet, you can even get colorful sleeves to go over it. As far as oral goes, in my opinion they're not down there long enough for me to orgasm. I believe I only achieved one orgasm through oral, but he was very generous when it came to that.
My advice, invest in a decent vibrator, or fantasize about Johnny Depp during masturbation.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 November 2010):
I don't have any suggestions that may help you, but I can assure you that you're not the only one in that boat. I've seen other posters here and have known a woman like you personally as well.
Have you found anything that can make you orgasm? Can you get one through masturbation?
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