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Is this guy cheating BEFORE we have a relationship?

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Question - (6 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey,me and this boy have been on about starting a realtionship, but have found out hes getting really friendly with this girl. the other nite he said "im going bed talk 2 u 2morrow " the next day i found out he went out with this girl. i have asked him about this and he said "we just friends, your the only girl 4 me." but if that the cause y lie and why not jst tell me? im not sure what 2 do as i like him already and dnt wanna get in a realtionship and then it ending me geting hurt what should i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010):

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thanks for the advice, i have taken this and realised i dont deserve 2 be second best thank you :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2010):

Well, you're not in a relationship, so technically he's not cheating. But it's still pretty low to do what he did given that you were talking about going into a relationship, and I think it's worth getting rid of him now before you get even more hurt. Why bother with a guy who has already lied to you. It just shows how low he really is. After all, if they were just friends, why didn't he tell you? Answer - they are more than just friends, or he hopes that they will be. Get rid of him now before he uses you.

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