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writes:Married woman(14 yrs) love marriage not very easy married life. his folks always tried to rip us apart. he too had an affair but when his financial condition was bad she dumped him. he realised my love nadis now back.his folks are better now.but i still feel discontent.An old male friend (both of us had crush on each other back then but never told each other)got i touch with me we happened to chat up and met over coffee and found we have so much in similar. he claims to be happily married. but feels a strong bond with me. he wants to take this friendship ahead and get into a physical relationship with me though we both dont want to leave our family we cant help feeling attracted to each other. should i keep this relation?
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reader, BE125  +, writes (11 August 2015):
I agree with the previous post. If you are considering an affair, then I would say there is something wrong with your marriage. I think sometimes people think the grass is greener on the other side, but that really isn't true most of the time. His folks had no right to,try and tear you apart, but that is his issue to deal with. He should be the one having a heart to heart with his parents and telling them to back off. It's not their choice who he marries. I would strongly recommend you do not pursue someone outside your marriage. I would concentrate on troubleshooting your own. Try and identify the issue, then you will have a better chance of resolving it.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (10 August 2015):
 If you are thinking of having an affair, things are not right in your marriage, and they won't get resolved by your having an affair.
Concentrate on your marriage and go to counselling if it helps you and your husband to sort out the issues.
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