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Is this a trap?

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Question - (31 December 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2009)
A female United States age 18-21, *issa writes:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/now-he-wont-call-whats-wrong-with-me.html

Thank you guys for the answers! it kinda cheered me up.

Okay After I posted this two days went by and he suddenly

texts me at 12 midnight.

I didn't know what to do so I texted him back. And he hasn't hinted to anything.

He said he was sorry but I don't know if it's a trap or if he really want's to be friends.

I'm confused, I asked him to hang out with me and my friends this week and he said ok.

Is their anything I can do to see if this is a trap? I don't want to be sad :(

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 January 2009):

Honeypie agony auntWho knows if it was a lie or not, obviously he's smart enough to figure out that an apology can get you places.

If it's a BF you want then take your TIME getting to know them, and NOT thru texting and email, but by actually hanging out. Texting is so superficial.

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A female reader, Tissa United States +, writes (1 January 2009):

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Tissa agony auntThank You guys, so he apologized for nothing? it was a lie?

Don't worry I'm having my friends come with me.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 January 2009):

Honeypie agony auntYou need to stay away from him.. Texting at midnight? was he trying for a booty call?

If you do hang out with him don't hang out with him alone. And listen to what you friends think of him.

I still say he's a looser.

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A female reader, Flawless29 United States +, writes (1 January 2009):

i believe that when most men do not answer there phone it is because half of them are doing something that they have no business doing. A real man will keep it real even if that means telling you the truth; which will hurt you. A man that cares about only himself and his needs and wants will do whatever it takes to hold on to many women to get his desires taken care of. See if he shows up and if he comes up with an excuse at the last minute, and he has done this before you are only there when it is conveient for him.

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