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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years. I know he loves me but thats not the problem. We have a long distance relationship but we meet up regular, and talk everyday so thats not the problem either.The problem is he has moods where he says he needs space, he's a lovely guy and I kind of understand why he neens his space sometimes, but I end up thinking that he's pushing me away.I don't moan about it too much, and I always respect the fact and give him space which usually last a few days, he always says sorry for being distant afterwards and he's always been like this way.Is this a normal "guy thing" or does it mean he has 2nd thoughts has about our relationship? I have asked him about this and he says sometimes he likes to be alone to think things through.It just makes me sad when he does this as usually we talk about everything.I'm looking for peoples point of view.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): Hmmmm ..... If I were you I wud ask him specfically why does he need space ? like are you doing somthing .... does he really love you ..... is he thinking of leaving you ....if he seeing someone else ? you need to ask him y and stuff like that ... to me it seems like you don't have enough info that you need .... I think it's great that you respect his space .... but it kinda does seem like he's pushing you away which isn't good....but IDK ....
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