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writes: I have had crush on the most introverted guy I’ve ever known for the whole duration of my degree course. And I have a feeling that he likes me based on the long stares and he always seems to be there, but as soon as I talk to him or try and involve in any deep conversation he always makes a reason to run off. This week it was the end of the course and we went to a bar to say our goodbyes, he stayed for 5 minutes and then had to go. I gave him a hug goodbye and wished him well. Now I feel that I have missed an opportunity to get to know him romantically. He has never provided me with his details but I could get it from a mutual friend. Do you think I should try and chase him or let it go?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 June 2012):
 Exactly, sometimes these things work and sometimes they don't, at least you will not be left wondering now what if? So you can accept he is not looking for anyone at the moment and move forward. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your responses. I asked him out via email and got straight to the point, unfortunately he said no, but was very flattered. He is travelling and then going into further education in another city and he said that he does not have a girlfriend but he is not looking as he has a lot of things happening. I am so gutted, but I am glad that I did it; otherwise I would have never known that I would had missed out on nothing happening.
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reader, lucky22  +, writes (31 May 2012):
 Go for it!! nothing ventured - nothing gained. Good luck!! x
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (31 May 2012):
It could be that he just does not know how to talk to girls as he is really shy so he just runs off. I don't see any harm in getting his contact details and telling him you like him. You would need to be very straight to the point with him though so that he actually knows that you like him and just see how he responds at the end of the day you don't have anything to lose so just go for it.
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