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writes:I am a 36 year old Im at my sexual peak and want sex all the time I try to wear sexy clothes for my 40 year old boyfriend and try anytime to have sex with him day or night but he says im not normal people dont have sex that much because I want it more than once or twice a day is there something wrong with me or is it him???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou everyone for your advise I appreciate it very much i guess i may be a little insecure but he just all of the sudden out of nowere complained i thought he enjoyed it as much as me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): Both people are normal...whatever that is.
BUT, if you are taking any medication, any at all, you should talk with your doctor. Some medications can cause problems and some hormonal issues can cause problems as well.
If his sex drive has plummeted from what it was, then he should also see a doctor and be open about the issue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): if you are like me, then you're going to go for the worst case scenario, 'omg, he doesn't want me, he doesn't love me, he thinks i'm not attractive' ect. but is that was true, he wouldn't be with you. he probably just doesn't feel the need to fill your relationship with constant sexual contact, if you confront him about this, then you may find a compramise, so not having it as much as you'd like, but not not having it at all. try something like twice a week or something along those lines?
hope this helped :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): There is nothing wrong with either of you. I have a very high sex drive too but to be honest, men do not want sex all the time. I have realised over time that my sexuality can be a little demanding. If I would you I would try to tone it down a bit, I think it can be little bit of a turn off. It's okay to not get your own way all the time you know! Maybe buy a good vibrator!
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (2 March 2011):
 I think you are perfectly normal. I have the same problem with my bf and I thought men were supposed to be the ones that want to have sex all of the time. I'm lucky if I get it once a week.
There isn't anything wrong with you. You just have a higher sexual appetite then he does. Some women have underlying problems where they only feel loved when someone is physically touching them, I don't know if that's a factor for you, but it might be something to look at.
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