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writes: My girlfriend and i live about 5 hours apart and see each other usually every other weekend. I'm starting to get concerned that something is going on that i'm unsure about. I'll tell you some of the things i know and some of the things that i'm suspicious about.1. very protective of her cell phone - i can't look in it without her freaking out. she'll take it into the bathroom with her or into the shower. if i walk out of a room for just a minute, she starts checking her phone. i'm very suspicious of this, obviously hiding something2. gets and makes lots of drunk calls to other guys and text messages too. we're on a shared cell plan, i don't think she realizes i can see her phone records. why are guys calling at 3am?? yeah not cool with me3. i know she has given her number out to guys at the bar and they've called before. everybody has given out fake numbers, but why give the real # if you don't want them to call?? 4. lies about talking to her exes. she left her email open once on my computer and it begged me to look. i was pretty upset with some of the things i read to not only exes but some other guys as well. ok thats probably enough stuff, there is more. she wants me to move to her but i'm very apprehensive and also in a much better financial situation (26, make 2x the money, own property - she is 22).what do you think, something going on? should i throw her to the curb? i love her, but i can't stand all the crap she pulls. help mej
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): Yes - there is a very definite lack of trust in this relationship. She sounds very immature and sounds as if she cannot give you want you need.You want a partner, someone to share your life with, a home with. She sounds like a confused child who you need to babysit!I think you already know the answer!
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (26 February 2006):
 You know the answer, finish it with her, she is up to something and even if she isnt the trust in your relationship has gone.
Looking at what you have wrote, I think she is doing some pretty heavy flirting and some lying, her behaviour is furtive, so tell her it is over and why.
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