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writes:I'm 14, female, and bi. I like a girl who is around my age, female, and recently came out to me telling me she was bi also. Yesterday she found out a guy in one of our classes likes her, and she likes him back. (She didn't tell me that I guessed) I like this girl and have since school started about 10 or 11 weeks ago. So anyway, yesterday I thought it would be my only chance and I told her I liked her through a note and then just ran off. The next morning in first period she passed a note to me saying she likes me too. She told me she likes that one guy in our class and me. She was getting really confused and wasn't sure what to do. I told her it would be okay for her to just be with him, or do what ever she wants to make herself happy. So I guess she's with him, but I do like her and I really think she likes me too as well as him. What can I do? Is there anyway I can get her to like me more than him...or am I out of luck? Answers soon would be nice. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): hey i know how you feel and i have this pang in my heart reading you. do you guys hang out? cuz if you just stay away and expect what she has for him to just die down, well when it does she might forget about you too. Unlike all the fairytale shit i've been hearing since i was a kid, love doesn't conquer all. if ur not spending time with her (just as a casual friend), and if at some point you just assume she knows how you feel and don't let her know that you're still in love with her, she might assume she made the right decision to stay with him and just forget about you. so just do what's comfortable. like passing little notes to her if you don't wanna hang out yet like asking her how was her day and wishing her a beautiful day. Trust me, if what you have for her and what she has for you isn't just a crush, then those little things and little shows of affection are what make love grow. anyhow, even if she ends up going for him, i've found that a broken heart is better than living with no feelings whatsoever, like just going through the motion of life
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 November 2009):
 I can't think of any way for you to behave that will make her like you more. I think you just have to be true to yourself, be a good person, a loyal friend, and honest with everyone. You're still young, there's still plenty of time in the school year. Relax, and don't push things too hard.
Good luck!
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