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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): funny enough i tried it last night with my bf, we have a good normal sex life its just he wanted to no what all the hype was about. the fact was it wasnt all that t was cracked out to be, he told me it was nicebut he would rather it the normal way. its just since it as seen as a "dirty act" that it is appealing. similar to the forbidden fruit syndrome. if your curious, ther is nothing wrong with it, just remember to use a lot of lubricant, and i found lying on my back and inserting him inside me that way rather than in the doggy style position, really wasnt painful at all. just take it slow and calmly .
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reader, amarielpn  +, writes (12 February 2008):
 There isnt anything wrong with it. But just like any other type of sex you should be protected! It can hurt the person recieving, but if done with ease, love and respect it can bring you to an orgasmic experience like no other. Try letting her be on top and enter as she sees fit, make sure she is very excited, and if she just cant do it..dont get mad!!! But if she can this position will allow all of her to be touched wich in the end will be pleasing for both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): You have hepititus, chances of STD's, it smells, it can get all over everything.
On the otherside, for those who dare to try it (I haven't given or received, and not interested), it is said that it is another sensitive and joyfull area. But preparation is highly recommended. I've heard a form of enema, a butt plug to get it closer to the size for the object to be inserted, and plenty of lubrication, and by no means should the object inserted be placed inside the vigina. Doctor told me my prostate infection was because of the thin walls with the anus, and this is where the infection came from. Normally, the infection can last for years in the prostate.
Maybe to much information, but better to much then not enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): It can be very painful. It can be dangerous in the way of STDs, HIV, infection, fissure, etc. It can be degrating or embarassing.It can be pleasureable, thrilling, interesting, kinky.If you're willing to put up with a bunch of lube, a lot of pain, and all the risks, approach with caution.
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reader, davie  +, writes (11 February 2008):
I don't see any problem with it providing both parties and willing and it is done appropriately and without discomfort. No damage is done if it is done correctly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): yes, it is dangerous in more ways than one. The anus is suppossed to be 'exit only' The sphincter muscle is not designed to be stretched in such a way and can be permanently damaged....you can also tear the very delicate tissue just inside the anus. Why do men want to try this? Too much porn!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): I have read the other posts and all I can say is.... why on earth do it - sex should not be that painful, that dangerous, that unhealthy or quite simply that much effort. There is a perfect place for a penis - it was made for the pleasure - and it is not an anus!!
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reader, hello1  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 Yes in my personal view. Women don't get any pleasure from it; the women that say they do are lieing or like the thrill of the pain. Men have a prostate, so that’s why gay men enjoy anal sex but women do not so that's why it’s impossible for a woman to truly enjoy anal sex. My b/f wanted to try it and I said no, what’s the point of going though all that pain?
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (10 February 2008):
 I think anal sex is a curiosity that some people have , because they wonder what it is like to enter a woman in that way, the dangers of anal sex are very serious, if you are wearing protection and it should fracture, then you are going to get life threatening illnesses, such as H.I.V. or full blown Aids, which will more that likely kill you. the bowel is a place that carries a trillions of harmful bacteria, if your penis comes in contact with then your health will be compromised.
There is also the fact that it is very pain full for your partner and and you could tear the bowel which if not caught in time will result in her death.
If you have anal sex on a regular basis in time to come, your partner anal will enlarge and she will more than likely have to wear incontinent pads ect for the rest of her life.
do you really think that this act is worth the destruction of one or both of your lives?, thats is why woman are born with a vagina.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): Anal sex can hurt quite a lot. Obviously I am on the recieving end, and the first time me and my bf tried it I passed out with pain. No joke. So yes, I'll be honest and say it generally kills, for the first few times anyway. After time, you get used to it though. However, I don't think a girl gets an awful lot of pleasure from it, because it doesn't 'hit any spots' and a man can find it too tight if he's not used to sex, but apart from that, go ahead! Don't let what I've said put you off, because it can be a wonderful experience.
But one thing's for sure, check with your girl before you try anything. She may be scared out of her wits and feel an unbelievable sense of guilt at not being able to please him anal-y for a while. I felt that guilt, and I almost cried when I felt the pain, and tried to carry on, but had to stop and felt guilty. So care about her, and don't just thrust as fast as you can.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (10 February 2008):
 from a medical point of view yes.are you talking about giving or recieving?if giving. Lube up and take it SLOW.if you're recieving. Lube up and brace yourself.
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reader, maddierose  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 No, why would it be? But remember it's still a way you can get STIs so remember protection is still needed.Hope I helped. =)
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