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Is there anything I can do to regain my sex drive?

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Question - (24 April 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2012)
A male New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I currently got myself into a situation that I dont know what to do about.

Im 23years old and I find myself to be a bi-curous (or at least I like to think that), however truth be told probably more gay then bi.

Up till a few days ago I was still a virgin in all aspects of the word... Until a met a guy who completely blew me off my feet. I ended up having sex with him... however ever since the first time its as if I have completely lost my sex drive.

Where I use to be able to masturbate about 7-8times a day to porn, etc.. if I wanted to. (my average was 2 times a day, once in the morning and once at night).... I am currently struggling just to get turned on... I dont have the desire to...

While with the new guy I met the other night (second time) I was struggling to just keep my erection, not to mention cum at the end.... same thing the third time we met up.

I am now starting to develop a complex, and I am scared he might think I dont find him attractive, etc... (which is not the case, because I find him super hot!)

What could the reasons be for this? Like I said, I use to think of myself as someone with a strong sex drive... but its as if I suddenly don't have any desire for sex... I just want to hug, kiss, etc... (I still love giving him pleasure though.)

Is there anything I can do to regain my sexual drive? May foods I should eat?

Really confused!!

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2012):

daniellexxxx agony aunt:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2012):

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@daniellexxxx

Thanks for the reply

I should probably try that, as I find that I am physically attracted to the male body more then the female body... however I bond better emotionally with females.

I will definitely try the skin to skin as well.

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A female reader, daniellexxxx United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2012):

daniellexxxx agony auntHi.. Have u tryed having sex with a women? Maybe you are attracted to men but not in a sexual way. I lost my sex drive with my partner after 4 year together and suddenly it just come back.

There's a number of things you could try like.. Forplay? Roleplay? They say skin to skin is the best way to be turned on to the full.

I suggest you try have sex with a women and see how different it is and see if you enjoy it more! Good luck

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