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female
age
26-29,
*ri_sunshine
writes:Hi, I'm 16 years old and have been sexually active with my boyfriend for a few months now. My problem is that I am never able to orgasm! I have orgasmed through the use of a vibrator, but I have never been able to orgasm through masturbating with on my hands, through oral sex, or any other kind of sex. Don't get me wrong, it feels great and my guy really knows what he's doing, but for some reason I never feel the "building" and I never reach orgasm. Is there anything I can do to help myself along?
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (30 August 2011):
 Since PIV sex is all about the penis inside the vagina, external stimulation of the clitoris doesn't really happen unless you do it yourself. Use your own hand to stimulate your own clitoris during sex, that's the way most women do it, anyway, and it's perfectly normal.
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (30 August 2011):
 Your problem isn't as rare as you might think. You need to relax and not try too hard and it will come - no pun intended!
Your vibrator stimulates your clit better than your fingers and that is the key to success: your clit. That's where it all happens!
Why not try a relaxing hot bath and take your time to stimulate your clit, safe in the knowledge that nobody can walk in and disturb you?
Also, if you have a showet attachment with a narrow, strong jet, open your legs and play it on your clit; it could blow your mind......
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female
reader, Miss kelsey +, writes (30 August 2011):
Hello there, please don't worry too much because the more stressed you are about getting there the further you will get away from it! Stress! Is number one. You need to be completely relaxed, number two being the fact the you are not alone! Most women can't cum through one sexual act, you need to combine them. Try some oral stimulation and join it with Penetration, number three is it normally takes near 20mins to make a female orgasm so take your time, feel relaxed ad positive about what happening, try talking sexually when having sex, tell him how YOU want it, what feels good to YOU, Remember men are pritty easy, we are not! And have FUN! Your young but be safe none the less! Good luck darlin Xx
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