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Is there any hope for a relationship or is my mate playing me about?

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Question - (16 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone. i hope someone could help me.

There is a guy i like and we have been flirting with each other, we even slept together which i do not regret. My best friend of 7 years says shes not interested in him but she keeps flirting with him. i know he likes both of us but i stood aside so my friend could get with him (relationship wise). she said she had no interest and that she was happy for me to get with him so i took the opportunity now she cant keep her hands off him plus im not sure how he feels about it all as he wont tell me.

Is there any hope for a relationship or is my mate playing me about?

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A female reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT United Kingdom +, writes (16 June 2007):

BEEN THERE DONE IT agony auntWell there hun,

Your friend didn't like him so you let him know that you were interested ,you have no regrets sleeping with him but now your mate is moving on him...that really is not fair on you, you should tell your friend how this is making you feel if she is any kind of friend she will understand..

You also need to ask this guy if he is interested in you or your friend as he can not have his cake and eat it,

There is hope of a relationship if he is interested in you and not the both of you, tell them both see what response you get, if there is not change then I really think you need to move on and find a guy who shows YOU interest and cares solely for you hun...

Hope this has helped be strong babes

Love Donna xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2007):

Your friend is playing around, she knows this guy likes both of you so she loves the attention, she doesn't wan thim but she doesn't want you to have him either which is rather selfish.Tell him that you like him and tell her to pack all the flirting in or bug off!x

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