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writes:So my husband and I have been married for 6 years and together for 7. We've had alot of problems but are still together, well the problem is I want to work on myself to better the relationship but I feel like im just done. Is there anyway to jumpstart my desire to fix myself or should I just get out? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2015): You're only between 22-25, but married 6 years? That places you between 16 to 19 when you got married. If you're having problems and have to ask if you should leave; maybe you should.
You're too young, and apparently there isn't any reason to jump-start the relationship; if it has been consistently problematic. Evidently, you haven't really dated or gotten much experience outside of the relationship you're in. I would even venture to guess you rushed into it; and did it in spite of the advice of your parents on either or both sides to wait. Now you're realizing why. If it's been that long; I know you have a child, or children. Just to make things more complicated.
Why don't you explain a little more what those problems are and why it's "you" who has to fix herself? It takes two to make a marriage.
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