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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for 5 years and he has a pretty high profile job. Recently I met a few of his work colleagues whom are older, but there is one who is around the same age as me and my boyfriend. People at work think he is arrogant and they don't like him very much, but I have only met him a few times and I can't stop thinking about him. He already has a girlfriend and they live together and I know its insane for me to feel and think the way I do when I know nothing will happen but I just feel a very strong connection between us...Or am I just imagining it?I don't know what to do!
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (26 February 2007):
 Well you we help whom you are attracted to can we? but like you said you have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. Has he given you any idea that he likes you? I think its best just left as it is.
I understand you like this man but its just a crush and you will get over it.
Just see how things go and dont do anything you may regret in the future. If you are unhappy in your relationship you must talk it over with your boyfriend.
I hope everything works out for you. xxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): Go for it girl, do what your mind tells you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): we cant tell u if u have a strong connection or not as u havnt said anything about it except that u cant stop thinking about him. only u know how u feel and what uve got to ask urself is whether he's worth finishing with ur boyfriend over and whether he would finish with his girlfriend for u. its a big decision to end a 5 year relationship over a ""connection""
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