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Is "spoke and wheel" a sex position, and if so, can you enlighten me?

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Question - (12 June 2008) 19 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2008)
A male United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I have recently heard the term "Spoke and Wheel". It is clearly a reference to a sex position but one I have never heard of previously. Can you enlighten me?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (16 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntNo offense taken, Sneaks. I'm just busy adding all this to our manual. If Irish wants it added, then dammit, I'm adding it!

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntIF I remember correctly, it was YOU, Uncle Sneaker, who strained his back, not me.

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A female reader, little ninja United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2008):

little ninja agony aunthey just thought id let you know it is actually called the fourth position, Kama’s Wheel, requires the man to sit with legs outstretched and parted; the woman then, facing the man, lowers herself upon his member, extending her legs in kind past his body. To complete the pattern, the man extends his arms upon either side of her frame to support her as she leans back, creating the spoke-like pattern...hope this helps..x

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (13 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntPerhaps it was mentioning the spoke-and-wheel position that did it. It took weeks to recover last time.

Or perhaps it was eyeswideopen's butt plug. It wasn't a vibrating butt plug was it, eyeswideopen? Or one that you attach to a TENS unit?

Incidentally, Tisha, I think we should all consider ourselves students in the school of human sexuality. It's never too late to learn something new or to try something a little different. I'm still often surprised by the variety of sexual likes, dislikes and possibilities for alternative practices that I hear about - and although many of them are quite definitely not for me, it's a wonderful subject that frequently puts a new slant (literally, sometimes!) on things.

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A female reader, nainaa_1752 Bahamas +, writes (13 June 2008):

nainaa_1752 agony aunthaha. I never heard though. Wanna know pls!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

We haven't heard from Susan yet. Has she by any chance locked herself in the bathroom and is hiding from Uncle Sneaker?

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntPerhaps we could write another one? I know a publisher who would take it...

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 June 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHey? Where did the manual go? There was some good info in there!!

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntActually, Tisha, there have been many occasions when I would have liked to tell someone or other here that they could "stick it up their a***", so unfortunately when eyes gave me the opportunity to say it with impunity, it was too good to resist!

Sorry, eyeswideopen. Love ya really!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 June 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntEyes is referring to a couple of threads long ago, Uncle Sneaker. Some of us aunts were suddenly students again in the school of human sexuality...and were passing notes and making jokes just like we were back in the classroom!

And we've kinda missed the opportunity to have a bit of a classroom brouhaha, and here it is again!

xxx

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntWell, eyeswideopen, I suppose the answer to you would be up your a*** (or a** for those in the USA). I didn't think a butt plug was included for that particular manoeuvre, but I'm always happy to be corrected.

As I said, it never worked for me. I think it might have worked if the woman who was somewhat smaller (by which I mean her general height and weight) and if I was somewhat larger (by which I don't mean my general height and weight). Or perhaps we were doing it wrong.

C'est la vie.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntSo then where does the butt plug go, Sneaks?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

Oh my, this sounds rather difficult and rather 'awkward'. I am not a contortionst..so think I will pass! lol But.. another one for the DearCupid sex manual, I would think.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

Sorry, have been thinking, but cannot get this one! Please advise! Love to learn!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 June 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntI'm still trying to work out the physics involved.

*brain working feverishly*

Nope, can't see how that could work without additional help.

Maybe there's a special harness/bed combo that would work?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

So - there's a fair bit of strain on the axle then? Bollocks to that!

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntUm... yes.

Do you want details?

A quick summary... think of the point of insertion as the hub of the wheel, your arms and legs as the spokes of the wheel, and then... well, just do as a wheel does.

It never worked for me

:(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

Enlighten me please!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

Never heard of itmyself mate, so basically I haven't got a flippin' clue! Sounds interesting though!

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