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female
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writes:Dear Cupid, I think there is something wrong with me. I am a girl, 17 years old. I do not orgasm. EVER. I had a boyfriend who touched me and I touch myself too. But I never seem to orgasm. I used to watch porn. The porn watching started when I was 11. Is something wrong with me?
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reader, IanHenryCooper  +, writes (17 July 2015):
 Visit Clitical.com, it's a website run by women, for women and deals with all sorts of sexual issues, including masturbation techniques.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2015): Porn won't help you orgasm. Basically you need to stimulate the clitorus to put it blunty.some people orgasm from penentration I think that's uncommon. A lot of women orgasm through oral sex. Personally that's what feels best for me.
You just have to try different things and see what works for you and what your boyf can do that feels good.
Everyone is different I know someone in their late twenties that has never had an orgasm. I'm older and can only orgasm alone, I use a vibrator or the shower. I can come multiple times by myself but never with another person. It just a personal thing for me.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (17 July 2015):
 Leave the porn behind you. It's fake, not reality.
Best way to find out how to orgasm is getting to know your body.
http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/1027607/self-lovin-sex-positions
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/sean-jameson/how-masturbate-women
Your BF is most likely inexperienced and since YOU are too, you might not be able to guide him - at least until you find that "thing" that just does it for you. Many men (younger) think that all it takes is inserting their penis, when facts are there is FEW nerve endings inside the vagina - we have on the other hand MANY times more nerve ending than men have, in our clitoris. So it's NOT about things going INSIDE you it's about finding the motions that makes you tick.
There is nothing WRONG with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2015): It's often just experience, Hun. You're so young - many don't experience orgasm until they're older.
I experienced it when my boyfriend was attentive to what felt good and kept going - takes me several minutes to get built up, and that's after I can feel it start building! So, it can take anywhere from 15 minutes to 45 minutes from the start of foreplay!
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