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writes: So I originally met this guy on rave-dating.com. I sent him a message telling him that he was cute and such not expecting to get a response back due to fear of rejection. But about a month or so later, he sent me a message back telling me I was cute too. And than I sent him a message back telling him my AIM and yahoo messenger names and he told me his. Well, I added him and saw him AIM a couple months later. Well, we've been talking since then, since maybe July or august, and he says he REALLY likes me and feels he needs me in his life even though he doesn't know me that well. He lives in Indiana, and I live in Minnesota. And every time I talk to him online or on the phone, I get those little butterflies. Is something wrong w/ me for having these intense feelings for someone that lives a 12 hour car ride away??? He said he's going to come see me when he saves up money and that he just wants to be with me. And I want to see him badly too. I know this probably sounds pathetic and stupid. But this guy seems REALLY genuine and not fake at all. He has these little names he calls me. Like Kitten. It's so cute! The weird thing is, after I met him on this website and added him on MySpace and such and started talking to him, the dating site we met on, disappeared and doesn't even exsist anymore. I dunno... Maybe I'm just thinking too far ahead w/ saying all this. Anyone have any advice for me? Anything would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (29 September 2007):
Living 12 miles away make the relationship almost certainly doomed. Try for a long range friendship.
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reader, DrPsych  + ♥, writes (28 September 2007):
 Time to put the brakes on those heart strings...there is nothing wrong with having a relationship with someone who lives 12 hours away, but you have to remember that people you meet on the internet may not be all they seem. It probably makes you feel good to have this online relationship as you can imagine this guy to be Mr Perfect when the reality maybe something rather different. You cannot be sure he isn't corresponding with other women on the net or that he doesn't have a wife and six kids at home. I am not trying to dampen your enthusiasm but rather get you to approach this situation with caution or else you could end up heartbroken.
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