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Is soap a good 'lube'?

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Question - (18 January 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 21 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

is it safe to have sex in the shower when soap is used as a sort of lub

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A female reader, nunununu United States +, writes (21 January 2008):

No,NO,NO

This can cuase irritation in the girl's.You have to see the doctor if you use it several times.it is not a good idea at all.

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (19 January 2008):

dearkelja agony auntCan you say yeast infection?

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (19 January 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntOuch! Ouch! Ouch! That just made the hairs on my arms stand up. No, it's not a good lube and will burn and sting.

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2008):

xapathyxrebornx agony aunti suggest you dont use soap just buy a [proper lube if its needed =] x

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A male reader, Asexy United States +, writes (19 January 2008):

Asexy agony auntIt works but it's not great. It will change the pH balance of her cooch, which could lead to itchyness as well as other complaints for her.

There's a good lube called "wet" that works in the shower. I think you need to get the cleanser that takes it off, because it's not water soluable. Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

noooo!!

dont use soap!!

it will irritate the skin

soap is designed for external use only.

buy proper durexlube or something, u can pick up a tube of it in boots!

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

Using soaps or other bath products inside or near the vagina, you're risking upsetting the delicate p.h balance inside which will usually lead to a not so sexy bout of thrush. Your man can catch it from you too so if you have unprotected sex with him then you'll just end up passing the infection back and forth between you until you both get treated for it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

Hi Hunny,

Soap is not a lube it will irritate and could give you infections, Yea have a sexy shower but keep the soap from going where its not good. love MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, Minelisse Puerto Rico +, writes (18 January 2008):

Minelisse agony auntYou should not use soap as it could irritate you. Try to have other types of lube available, water based.

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

Sex in the shower is good, soap for lube may not be so good. A little probably wouldn't hurt but if too much soap gets too far up inside you it could cause a urinary tract infection. Same for a man if it gets too far up inside the penis hole. When my husband and I have sex in the shower I use a little drop of conditioner. You only need a little bit and it works great!

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A female reader, IntoxicatingLastBreath United Kingdom +, writes (18 January 2008):

IntoxicatingLastBreath agony auntOuch!

Really..DON'T use soap as lube, it will sting lol

Same with anything else like shampoo..conditioner..anything that's perfumed really..it's safe..but it will most likely burn :P

The best lube really to use is durex 'play' lube..it's cheap (around 3 pound) and can be bought at even stores like Tesco..you can get a choice of either 'feel' or 'warmth'..the warmth one makes you feel warm as you use it..

Hope i've been of some help

Feel free to contact me

~Krissy [x]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008):

That depends on how delicate your 'bits' are and if prolonged contact with soap irritates the mucous membranes.

The biggest danger is if the shower tray gets too slippery and the pair of you end up crashing through the glass in the door and land on the bathroom floor in a heap. It's at that point that the 'ardour' becomes softer..

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