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Is she using me to make her boyfriend upset?

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Question - (28 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So im at playing in this tennis match when this girl comes up to me and asks me if im gonna play and I say yeah and ask her if she is. Then I lose my first match and she comes up to me and asks me if I won when I told her I lost she said oh well you looked fit anyway. Then she played her set and she lost so I gave her a hug and this guy im about to play comes up to me and was saying how fit she is so someone in my team goes yeah she's his (my) girlfriend guess that another thing you not gonna win. So I ask the girl if she will be my pretend girlfriend so she looks over my shoulder and then kisses me really hard and then whispers in my ear this is fun. The next day she begins to flirt with me more but only when the guy who said Shes my girlfriend is around. I asked him of anythings going on and he said he likes her and everyone says she likes him. Am I being used??? Btw I am the new boy so I don't know much about the people at my new school???

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (29 November 2010):

The Realist agony auntIt sound like you are being used but that is a matter of opinion. If you don't dvelope feelings for her then you real aren't being used. Either way it seems she wants to make this guy jealous but I don't think it's her bf, he sounds like someone who is so full of himself that he thinks he can just call someone his gf.

If you want to have fun with this then let it continue but it would be really bad if you fell for this girl. Be careful with this one and watch out for angry signs for this other guy. You don't want to be caught in some fight between those two.

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