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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have being have a relationship with a married woman is is a work colleague. Im single had have been for about four years, having come out of a 18 year relationship.She was having problems with her married life and later admitted they were not having sex and she had found out that her husband had a affair. She initially made the move for me and we have only had occasional sex. We are limited to communicating to each other by mail at work and occasionally catch a hour at lunch. Initially she would ring me on the weekends and then that eventually went to a text and since I have mentioned this she has now started to make a bit more effortShe has said that she cannot offer me anything and her children come first and she is only in with her husband for the sake of her children. But she has said that she has fallen for me and would be devastated if I broke things up. I do feel is if I have fallen for her but I dont think her feeling are the same. She says all the right things but have very little actions.I recently went to her 40th birthday party and felt as if like a work colleague and nothing more. You could see things between her husband are not right.I am so confused. What do I do what can I do.I feel I should end this but I am too weak. Am I being used by her to help her marriage. I dont want to hanging around for the sake of things.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 April 2010):
 She is not going to be devastated. She can find another sucker or divorce her husband.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 April 2010):
She is using you as the comfort blanket. She can say her kids are coming first as much as she wants, but she is using you. This won't work out, because she won't leave. You'd be better off finding a woman who does care about you and can be with you.
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