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Is she just scared of dating or...way too immature for a relationship?

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Question - (30 November 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

ok im 20 years old and ive known this girl since she was like 13 now shes 17 and we've met up and are now dating i really like her and treat her better than i've treated most girls in the past. we've been together for about 3 weeks and im feeling a little weird about the relationship, she to is feeling weird about it, but goes about it in an immature way. like getting mad for no reasons or calling me names just to get me mad. she also told me to not treat her so nice and be an asshole sometimes. So my quetion is, is this girl just confused and scared of being in a commited relationship or is she just to young to be dating in the first place?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2006):

I think she is trying to get more attention than your willing to give. She probably isnt to immature but she wants you to kinda be protective and that kinda means being an asshole sometimes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005):

Or maybe she is someone that gets attracted to men that arent very nice to her and wants you to be like that with her to keep her interested .. that would mean you changing to be someone your not.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005):

Sounds to me like an unhealthy relationship! It also sounds like she's a little confused. If she's so confused its confusing you, you should probably break it off. Another thing that you could do is go about it in a mature way, and talk to her about it, and if she still doesnt take it seriously, then at least you tried. Shock her and DONT feed in to her BULL, thats what shes expecting you to do. -ALEY KAT

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