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*onfused1985
writes:There is a girl I like that works in my parents shop, I think she likes me too but I'm really bad at picking up on things. she always texts to let me know when shes working and if she will see me when shes working, also she will talk to me a lot face to face and via text but if I ask her to hang out (not a date just go for a walk etc) she seems interested but then avoids naming a time that suits her so I feel I have to push a bit. she does seem shy and not very confident in herself but she is really lovely and caring in general so how do I tell if she is just a friendly person or if she likes me? both me and her have recently come out of serious relationships so could she just being scared of getting hurt again and keeping a bit of distance from me even though she likes me or is genuinely wanting to be a good friend. she has said we are going through the same sort of thing atm and seems keen to talk because of that but then doesn't talk about owt to do with relationships :S I'm so confused by her but I dont want to outright ask her cuz if she doesn't like me it will make it very awkward at work for her..... Help lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2014): if she just came out of a serious relationship, you should let her take her time,it's best for you to slow it down, and since you 2 are friends, you should approach her and talk about your past and her past, it'll be easier if you become close friends first,consider her emotions,i wanna tell you to go and confess your feelings to her right now, but it'll not be applicable cause you just recently came out of a serious relationship, it'll take time :) be her best friend and the moment you're ready to ask for something more than friends,you should be open to accept whatever her decision will be :) i hope i helped you a bit :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2014): Dear sir, if you're being shy? She may be confused by your
signals. She is an employee, and she may feel obligated to be polite; when she'd rather you keep a professional-distance.
You have her at a disadvantage, and uncertain of how to read you. No disrespect to you, but the deal just seems a little creepy.
She doesn't want to lead you on, and least of all; she doesn't want to piss you off. You're the one confusing her with being too shy to just ask her out for coffee. If she makes excuses not to go, then don't ask again. Be polite and move on.
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