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writes:Hi,I was dating a girl over a year ago and at the time we both thought we'd met the one. We both thought it was amazing but before we met I'd accepted a job away from home. she was gutted and called it off because she said she simply can't do distance, she needs to protect herself. She said it would make her an insecure mess. We have kept in touch nearly everyday for a very long time since. My work is finishing up and I'm moving back home. I then told her and was gutted to find out she only just started to give it another go with her ex. I thought she wouldn't bother anymore but text me saying a load of compliments. I replied saying that's no use because you're now seeing someone else. Now a week later she tells me she is only taking it very slowly with the ex.Is she trying to suggest it's finishing up with jer ex again or shall I ignore her and start dating others?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2014): Hi. I'm the Op. Thanks for your answers. I am interested in your situation, anonymous replier, if you don't mind me asking? Why did you go back to an ex if there is someone else you liked more?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 August 2014):
 I think when you met her you didn't have the time to get to know each other and make a deep bond, but you didn't completely cut ties either. When she called it off I don't what's the use of keeping in touch. She is stringing two men along and at the same time while she can't commit to either, she keeps both you and the ex in line just in case. You should ignore her because you can never be sure of her intentions. You simply don't have time to be competing for her attention and wait for her to make up her mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2014): Hmm it's hard to tell but it sounds like she might be giving you a hint... that she's still interested. Also, if you guys really liked each other to begin with, and have managed to stay in touch all that time, maybe you guys would be really good together. Something similar happened with me and my boyfriend, and we got together. . That was 4 years ago and we are still together now :-)
Don't give up so easily, tell how how you feel and if she really wants it she will choose you :-)
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