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writes:my wife of 30th years did have a lesbian,love relationship, with woman, five years ago, when i found out, i was devastated, the woman,live across the st.before,me and my wife did have a great sex life, after, the lesbian affiar she hates, oral sex, i bolive that she is a lesbian, our sex lives, is not like before,she is missing something,[she also denied the lesbian affiar]it she a lesbian?
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reader, lilly123  +, writes (7 November 2010):
 letting go of someone we love is the hardest thing we will ever do but sometimes we have to walk away from the people we love in order to let them be happy.you need sit down with your wife and ask her all the questions you want answers to otherwise this problem may not go anywere and you may not want to hear the answers but eventially it will make you both happier...the truth will set you free
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Have you definite proof that she had a lesbian affair or are you going on hearsay? If you have proof beyond doubt then it's probably safe to say your wife is bisexual or bi curious.
When you found out about her lesbian liason before, did you speak to your wife about it? what was the conclusion?. It seems you have difficulty communicating with your wife, if she denied the affair, maybe it's something she wants to move on from?
It might be a good idea to have some marriage guidance counselling to get things out in the open so you know where you are. Doubts and worries can affect your sex life so it may not just be the fault of your wife that things are difficult. If you believe she is a lesbian then that will affect your own performance.
I think it's time to establish time to talk and get some impartial advice and help from a counsellor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): I would suggest she talk to a counselor who specializes in sexuality. It is def quite possible.
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