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Is my vagina supposed to look like this?

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Question - (27 March 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay, This is more embarresing then anything and I amd soooo scared. See my friends are all doing stuff with there boyfriends and everything but I'm to scared because... I'm scared it looks diffrent..

I have wodered why mine have these skin flaps that kindof hang own farther then my regular lips and it looks and feels really weird! I don't think ths is how its suppose to look. I have seen someone elses vigina on a computer screen before (I didn't mean to see it, it was a accident.) I have wondered about them since I hit puberty. I don't know what to do.

Are these skin flapps suppose to be this long? I just don't think they are. I have to tuck them because they are long. This is achward for me and I don't like asking but I need to know. I'm worried if my boyfriend sees it that he will think its gross. My friend had a picture of hers on her phone (don't ask me why Because I reallllyyy dont want to ask her) and my other friend whos a boy accidently seen it today In said that it was gross looking. I don't want to go through that. So are these skin flapss suppose to be this long?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (27 March 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntGreat video here:

You'll have to copy/paste the link as the '?' interrupts the hyperlink.

You are perfectly normal. You are fine. You are beautiful as you are.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012):

You should be pleased. It means you are sexually hot, which we guys appreciate very much.

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A female reader, uroboros United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2012):

its normal for inner labia to be bigger than outer labia, some girls have it, some don't. when you're ready to get intimate with the right guy, believe me the last thing he will notice is the size of your labia :)

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (27 March 2012):

person12345 agony auntAs long as it isn't painful or physically uncomfortable there's no such thing as normal. It's very normal for the inner labia to hang lower than the outer ones, it's also normal for them to be different sizes. Any guy who is repulsed by normal looking labia has been watching too much surgically enhanced porn. I don't think it's appropriate for me to link to these types of things, but if you do a google search for "normal vulvas" you'll see they come in all shapes, sizes, and colors and it's all PERFECTLY NORMAL. If a guy ever had the audacity to comment that your labia are too big, you should comment back that his penis is too small.

What's more likely, that you and your friend both just randomly happen to have ridiculously oversized genitalia, or that your friend was embarrassed to be seeing his friend's genitals? I'm sure you're totally fine. I've seen my fair share of lady parts and there really is no normal, they all look different and are all perfectly fine.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012):

Every body is different. My flaps are also pretty long and I hate it but there's nothing we can do to change it, the only option is to accept it and believe me, guys don't care about that as long as it's not a penis hahaha. I was also concerned about it when I started having sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't mind, he says he loves it. If someone really loves you they won't care what your body looks like and will never compare it to someone elses :)

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