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writes:im 16 years old and ive always been into older men. i hope that i dont sound crazy. i was in acting class and my acting teacher stared at me and gave me this sexy smile like he wanted me. when he told us told do an certain exercise he put his arms around my waist to guide me to where i was suppose to stand and right thre i felt like he liked me. when me and my mom were outside, i saw him walking and while my mom wasnt looking he i said hello to him and him was giving me this sexy stare and i felt the sexual tention.he's 40 and this happened a few months ago. he lives in ny and i want to go down there to find him because he is still on my mind. do you think he's into me???? or thinking about me even though it's been a few months????
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (11 August 2010):
I would just leave this one be. Don't pursue it. There is going to be a huge difference in maturity and you two are probably looking for something else in a relationship. Even if something were to come of this think about it. You'll be in your 30's when he's 60. You should try to find someone that is about your age.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (11 August 2010):
 It's OK... to like someone older. BUT you just have to realize that at your age (until you turn 18)... you can't really 'be' with anyone older than 18. It's just plain illegal. Wait until you're legal... and then find someone older (if you're still into older guys).
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Keep this one in the box marked 'fantasy'. If you still feel this way about him on your 18th birthday, feel free to go looking for him, but I think New York might be a difficult place to go about finding one specific person if you've no contact details. Also, be really careful. There's no clear demarcation line where age differences become OK or inappropriate, but I think a 40-year-old man having sexual feelings for a 16-year-old boy is just WRONG and would make him a paedophile, irrespective of whether you have the hots for him. I would also suggest that he had no business putting his arms around your waist, again irrespective of whether you liked it.
'ive always been into older men'...watch out, it's a jungle out there. I first put an ad on a 'Manhunt' exchange when I was 17 and within three days I'd received 37 replies from men of various ages. I smelt a rat: the tone of the responses left me in no doubt that they were all predatory paedos and I'm very, very glad that I never took it any further.
Don't do anything stupid with anyone you can't trust - and I hope you haven't already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): Hey mate .
it sounds like you probally have a crush on your teacher . i know that sometimes i have mis read things like people giving me looks and that as a result i have spent hours thinking what if and if only . my advice is that your young and like its best to spend your time and your attention on people your own age . Also if he is like touching you in away that you feel uncomfortable with you should probally tell someone .
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reader, candygirl_iraq  +, writes (10 August 2010):
Honey,isnt that illegal? You're still underaged.If he is interested in you,it's probably just for sex. Do you want that?
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reader, Gemmarrr  +, writes (10 August 2010):
your not crazy at all because really i fancy older men aswell and im only 14 and my teacher is 41 and i love him but anyway back to your question it does sound like he was into you by the sound of it but if it was only at that point and its been a few months then you dont really know you could go and see him in ny if you wonted to, then you could find out for sure.
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