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26-29,
anonymous
writes:HiI have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years now and its been very much on - off. When I fist met my boyf, I was going through a hard time at my flat with my room mate, so his family said I could move in with them for 3 months only. Well I ended up staying for 9 and was blissfully happy but due to the fact I am a very polite person and didn't want to intrude further, I decided to move out. Thats really when all the trouble started. My boyfriend is very loud, drama king etc and whilst living on my own, he got very paranoid (he never told me the reason why) in which I ended up finishing with him. Every Friday/Sat night after being out, he would end up on my doorstep pleading for me back yet being a complete idiot when drinking. We have broken up nearly 17 times now but each time we just keep on going back to each other. He tells me constantly that he loves me and wants me to be in his life etc but when we are together, he dosen't treat me with respect. We want all the same things in life and I don't know whether to hang round anymore. All my friends say he has two moods and when he isn't with me, he needs me, but when he has me, dosen't want me. How on earth can I make this situation better and nake him not take me for granted? Oh n forgot 2 mention he is 21 n I am 28.Thank you and sorry for babbling!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): i agree completely. you need to just get rid of him. you dont want a man that has no ounce of respect for you. and the way that he acts, he does not have any for you whatsoever. find someone that doesnt have such dramatic mood swings and can give you a normal healthy relationship. trust me. there are tons of them out there. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): From what I just read, you don't both want the same things. YOu deserve a man that treats you respect at ALL times. You have broke up 17 times? My advice is to move on to someone more mature, and has your best interest at heart... this guy seems to like the chase..but dosen't know what to do when he catches you. Make it easy on him, and leave him...FOR GOOD SISTER SUE!! You deserve to be treated like a lady. Best of luck Love!!
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reader, Basschick  + ♥, writes (8 July 2008):
 Stop answering your door. This guy needs therapy and he will continue to keep you confused and hanging in limbo for him. He probably needs to seek counseling and possibly be on medication for bi-polar disorder. You need to start seeing other people and try to move on. He will have no choice but to do the same.
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