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writes: Can too much work on computer kill sex drive? My husband works 14 hours a day,7 days a week. And he is totally non sexual ,and when he tries sex, he gets some erection,but losing it,at penetration. Now I know,it sounds weird,but I thought maybe it is from focusing too much on codes,and he forgot how to be a man?? Or am I really silly? I dont know what to do with him. I feel totally unloved ,and non sexy. He is nice guy ,pays the bills,but he stuck front of the screen, and I cant stop him on any ways. Is this very alarming ,or sex is over at 45?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): He works 14 hours a day 7 days a week? He needs to decide if he's married to you or his job. He needs to find another job or cut back on hours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Does he devote any of his computer time looking up sexual things? If he spends a lot of time with sexual content on the net, he can loose interest in pursuing sexual matters at the end of the day. Seems to affect men in this age group in particular.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): Failing at sex leads to more failures; the less attention paid to it, the less you feel like doing it. This goes for women, too. Talk to him about Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra, which will make him a success, and do things to get him interested in you. Don't put this all on his shoulders or make it a moral issue. You could show more enthusiasm yourself, couldn't you? Ask yourself what you think he'd like to do and how. Then go ahead and lead him to it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 July 2010):
If he's just sat there doing nothing but working on a computer for that amount of time, then it will be part to blame for your lack of sex life. An active, healthy man tends to have an active, healthy sex life. He needs to come off that computer and get down a gym and get active, and probably needs to see a doctor for a check up to make sure everything else is working properly.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 July 2010):
If he's just sat there doing nothing but working on a computer for that amount of time, then it will be part to blame for your lack of sex life. An active, healthy man tends to have an active, healthy sex life. He needs to come off that computer and get down a gym and get active, and probably needs to see a doctor for a check up to make sure everything else is working properly.
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