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Is my husband using me?

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Question - (25 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

is my husband using me ??

i been marreid to my husband 7 yeras we been to gether total 9 years we have 3 children to gether and i had 2 grils from previous marrige things were good intil he quit his job with out no reason then i told him to fine a new jobwhile i was working to job and pregnt that was oct 2006 in til today he is been unenpoloyed i'm the 1 who works very hard pay the bills and everything h dnt care he dont help me housewor i have to clean cook food ihave to go back my r only 4 weeks becouse we were broooke he does not care he chuw khat at night time and sleeps all day every morning before i go work he promise me he will wake up later and will find a job plz dont ask me who puy that stuff his frinds that has no wife or been divorsed i talk to him every way i told him i love him but he has to stand him self and take his responsplity he i never home and wen he is all he do sceams my children speacila my to girls he call them names and he told me they disrespec him then with the crayz stuff he is doin g the neclect the absent parent he is i could not take any more and kick his azzz out now he is calling me and begin me plz let me come home i willl chenge i will finda job i will help you i try to ignore my needs and my kidds neeeeds i just wanna be alone i did not miss him at alll i'm sick and tired his excuse he dont wanna get a help so why dont he let me b alone and getthe devorse wat is wrng with this picure he says i dont love him that much all i care ismy kidd and my jobbs i'm tired dont he see i', suffring he wanna me to take care of him just like 1 of the kidds m i right o wrong???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009):

thanks klc5252 and gina i need to hear that thanks again

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A female reader, klc5252 United States +, writes (26 December 2009):

you are right to leave him. it is one thing to let a man disrespect yourself but quite another to let him do it to the children. yelling and calling them names? sound like a pathetic man to me. if you dont protect those children who will? i would say if someone treated my child like there is no going back.

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