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Is my guy who's 12 yrs younger than me not ready to settle down?

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Question - (30 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I feel too jealous and it bothers me. My bf is 12 yrs younger than me, im 33. he has a cute face and there are always girls come to him and he enjoys that feeling being liked by others,he usually doesnt tell them in the first place that he has a gf.and he even agrees go night clubbing with his male friend' female friend who obviously showed she likes him.i dont know why and i wonder: he just wants to feel good or he has seconds thoughts always? its drving me crazy..what should i do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007):

Hi, my now husband is 12 years younger then me, im 41 he’s 29. I was concerned at first with the age difference, not so much now but later on, will he want to go find a younger model so to speak, but I think you have to think about the moment in time, and not think to much in the future, if you truly love him and he feels the same way, so what, go for it, life’s too short.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom + , writes (1 October 2007):

hlskitten agony auntHi

He doesnt sound anywhere near ready for an exclusive relationship to me just by what you have said there.

I have been with a guy 10 yrs younger than myself when i was your age. He was quite mature for his age and it was fine for 2 years but he still had a lot of living to do. And 3 years later, hes 27 now and still living it! hehe

Good luck.

C xxxx

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