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writes: A guy my girlfriend met at a pub before we got serious still calls her once in a while, but its always a "drunk dial" at 3 or 4am. I checked her phone, and turns out she had called him on New Year's Eve at 10am (before the eve)... which was a week before his most recent call to her. She said she never called and I didn't bring up her phone log. i feel bad for looking at it. She says she gets pissed when he calls, that she's talked to him like 3 times, and I told her I'd call him to have him knock it off, but she said no, she'd call him. She hasn't called him yet (2 weeks). Is it possible she's interested in him?
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reader, sparky +, writes (15 January 2006):
sparky is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSage advice. I should add that she's a little shy, and doesn't like confrontation, which could be why she's not calling... like hoping it will go away.
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 This drunk- dial guy seems to think your girlfriend is available and willing to converse with him in one way or another... the question is, why hasnt she been straight with him and told him to bug off?
She could be sending out mixed messages to him, so it's time you asked her to put him in his place, telling him his late nite calls are not appreciated and that she is happily involved in a relationship with you that she does not want to mess up!
If this is indeed the way she feels, though, she should have sorted him out long ago... so see to it she does.
If she keeps making excuses for him, then I'm sorry to say, there is something going on with the two of them and you musn't put up with this, it makes you look like a damn fool... You already have been too mild about this, it is time to take control of the situation.Take Care of Yourself and Good Luck.
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reader, sparky +, writes (14 January 2006):
sparky is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the response. Actually, I saw she called him on New Year's day, the day after I told her I loved her for the first time. I didn't say anything. Then, he called her a week later at 3AM. Who does that? Why would he think that's ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2006): I'm confused. You said that she hasn't called him yet, but that she did call him on New Year's Eve. I suppose you confronted her after New Year's and she hasn't called him since.
Either way, if there is a chance she's interested in him, she probably would have called him by now. I don't think you need to worry.
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